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So now for the engagement...

Fast forward to Spring 2004. Nina was accepted into UCLA's Anderson School of Business and suddenly realized she wanted to try to buy an apartment as soon as possible so that we wouldn't have to go through the hassle of it all after we got engaged and eventually moved in together.

Apartment purchase turned into house purchase, Chris got involved in that whole mess of a process and by June 2004 they landed at 708 Oxford Avenue in Marina del Rey.

Meanwhile, Chris had been ring shopping for quite a long time, and had gotten serious about it earlier in the year. But the house purchase became such an overwhelming task that everything else was put aside, including the ring purchase, until that was done. Nina started to wonder if it would ever happen...

That said, here is Nina's recounting of how it all happened:

...On June 26 we attended a wedding along with my folks in Orange County. During dinner I noticed that Chris and my Dad were deep in conversation; when I asked what they were talking about Chris responded so casually "you know, computers, Sony stuff." A flicker of hope gleamed in my eye, but it was just so normal that that would be the conversation. Sigh....always the bridesmaid....

We arrived home a little past midnight that night and I was DREADING the mover's Sunday 7am arrival! What a fiasco that was. They arrived 1 & 1/2 hours late, so after a bit of a "conversation" between Chris and the movers, we managed to get a second 4-man team out to move both our apartments at the same time in under 6 hours. We were racing against the clock because we had tickets for the Hollywood Bowl that evening with my family! Way to hustle...

By 3:30pm, we were both exhausted and dirty from all the dust that I hadn't had time to clean up over the last few months. My very helpful brother Neil was told he had to leave so we could spend the first night in the house with just the two of us. (Very sweet - first night in the first house ever!) We were all to meet up at the Hollywood Bowl at 6pm for dinner later that night.

I jumped into the shower, Chris went looking for something lost among our TEN THOUSAND boxes. He shut the bathroom doors inside the master bedroom, which I thought was very considerate considering that he knows I don't like to be cold when I get out of the shower. When I was done I opened the doors, in my towel, to discover Chris had been patiently seated just outside the doors with two dozen long stemmed red roses. "YAY!! HAPPY HOUSE DAY!!" I cheered, thinking that he had them because it was our first day in the house. He stood up and handed me the flowers and sat me down. For a second I thought he just wanted me to sit there while he went to take a shower. Keep in mind that I was very tired and confusion had set in.

Then he got down on one knee and said something like "I know you have waited patiently for a long time....I love you....Will you marry me..." Of course I was crying....OH - and then there was the steady grinding of the construction workers saw downstairs...Ah, so romantic! :) I was so emotional, I was sure I wouldn't remember it all.

I then realized we were going to miss the Westwood bus to the bowl! Chris said, "let's not rush, I'll drive." I was THINKING "are you crazy!! No one drives to the Bowl!! I don't even know where to park!" He continued to get ready and we go downstairs. I opened the garage door; he closed it. I asked, "What are you doing? Did you want me to drive? I can drive." (I was parked on the street due to the other TEN THOUSAND boxes in the garage). He said, "we'll take my other car."

I wondered - "What other car??" And then the LIMO pulled up!!!

We took the limo to the bowl and along the way we called Chris's family on the East coast and my family in Illinois to share the news. We were about 1/2 a mile from the Hollywood bowl (45 minutes later) and Chris' face dropped. "I forgot the tickets at home." WHO CARES!! We were in a limo and we could go wherever we wanted!!

We finally got to the bowl, met my parents and I showed my mom the ring - it was a big surprise! She gave Chris a big kiss on the cheek. My dad seemed so excited that he knew ahead of time. He was announcing to everyone around us at the bowl that we got engaged. It was really cute. Apparently Chris had already shown the ring to Neil so he wouldn't feel bad that he had been booted back to Arcadia after a hard day's work helping us with the move.

We watched the show, had a little dinner and then took my family back to Arcadia in the limo. My parents had never been in one before so it was pretty exciting :)

Then Chris and I passed out in the limo on the way back to the Marina. We spent the night in the guest room because the master bedroom was full of stuff. Our first night in our first house on our first day as fiancées

... And that is the story!